RDMA/ocrdma: Do proper cleanup even if FW is in error state

If any mailbox command reports timeout, save the state in the driver,
to prevent issuing any more commands to the HW.  Do proper cleanup
even if FW is in error state.

Signed-off-by: Mitesh Ahuja <mitesh.ahuja@emulex.Com>
Signed-off-by: Selvin Xavier <selvin.xavier@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>