nfs: do not start the callback thread until we set rqstp->rq_task

This fixes an Oopsable race when starting up the callback server.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Reviewed-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>