tipc: fix race between poll() and setsockopt()

Letting tipc_poll() dereference a socket's pointer to struct tipc_group
entails a race risk, as the group item may be deleted in a concurrent
tipc_sk_join() or tipc_sk_leave() thread.

We now move the 'open' flag in struct tipc_group to struct tipc_sock,
and let the former retain only a pointer to the moved field. This will
eliminate the race risk.

Reported-by:  <syzbot+799dafde0286795858ac@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jon Maloy <jon.maloy@ericsson.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>