fuse: Convert to separately allocated bdi

Allocate struct backing_dev_info separately instead of embedding it
inside the superblock. This unifies handling of bdi among users.

CC: Miklos Szeredi <miklos@szeredi.hu>
CC: linux-fsdevel@vger.kernel.org
Acked-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>