xdp: introduce xdp_return_frame API and use in cpumap

Introduce an xdp_return_frame API, and convert over cpumap as
the first user, given it have queued XDP frame structure to leverage.

V3: Cleanup and remove C99 style comments, pointed out by Alex Duyck.
V6: Remove comment that id will be added later (Req by Alex Duyck)
V8: Rename enum mem_type to xdp_mem_type (found by kbuild test robot)

Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>