ALSA: usb-audio: Avoid autopm calls after disconnection

Add a similar protection against the disconnection race and the
invalid use of usb instance after disconnection, as well as we've done
for the USB audio PCM.

Bugzilla: https://bugzilla.kernel.org/show_bug.cgi?id=51201



Reviewd-by: Clemens Ladisch <clemens@ladisch.de>
Tested-by: Clemens Ladisch <clemens@ladisch.de>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Takashi Iwai <tiwai@suse.de>