xfrm: Add ESN support for IPSec HW offload

This patch adds ESN support to IPsec device offload.
Adding new xfrm device operation to synchronize device ESN.

Signed-off-by: Yossef Efraim <yossefe@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>