isci: unify isci_request and scic_sds_request

They are one in the same object so remove the distinction.  The near
duplicate fields (owning_controller, and isci_host) will be cleaned up
after the scic_sds_contoller isci_host unification.

Reported-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>