blk-mq-tag: cleanup the normal/reserved tag allocation

This is in preparation for having another tag set available. Cleanup
the parameters, and allow passing in of tags for blk_mq_put_tag().

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>
[hch: even more cleanups]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Omar Sandoval <osandov@fb.com>