IB/mlx5: Fix cleanup order on unload

On load we create private CQ/QP/PD in order to be used by UMR, we create
those resources after we register ourself as an IB device, and we destroy
them after we unregister as an IB device. This was changed by commit
16c1975f ("IB/mlx5: Create profile infrastructure to add and remove
stages") which moved the destruction before we unregistration. This
allowed to trigger an invalid memory access when unloading mlx5_ib while
there are open resources:

BUG: unable to handle kernel paging request at 00000001002c012c
...
Call Trace:
 mlx5_ib_post_send_wait+0x75/0x110 [mlx5_ib]
 __slab_free+0x9a/0x2d0
 delay_time_func+0x10/0x10 [mlx5_ib]
 unreg_umr.isra.15+0x4b/0x50 [mlx5_ib]
 mlx5_mr_cache_free+0x46/0x150 [mlx5_ib]
 clean_mr+0xc9/0x190 [mlx5_ib]
 dereg_mr+0xba/0xf0 [mlx5_ib]
 ib_dereg_mr+0x13/0x20 [ib_core]
 remove_commit_idr_uobject+0x16/0x70 [ib_uverbs]
 uverbs_cleanup_ucontext+0xe8/0x1a0 [ib_uverbs]
 ib_uverbs_cleanup_ucontext.isra.9+0x19/0x40 [ib_uverbs]
 ib_uverbs_remove_one+0x162/0x2e0 [ib_uverbs]
 ib_unregister_device+0xd4/0x190 [ib_core]
 __mlx5_ib_remove+0x2e/0x40 [mlx5_ib]
 mlx5_remove_device+0xf5/0x120 [mlx5_core]
 mlx5_unregister_interface+0x37/0x90 [mlx5_core]
 mlx5_ib_cleanup+0xc/0x225 [mlx5_ib]
 SyS_delete_module+0x153/0x230
 do_syscall_64+0x62/0x110
 entry_SYSCALL_64_after_hwframe+0x21/0x86
...

We restore the original behavior by breaking the UMR stage into two parts,
pre and post IB registration stages, this way we can restore the original
functionality and maintain clean separation of logic between stages.

Fixes: 16c1975f ("IB/mlx5: Create profile infrastructure to add and remove stages")
Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <markb@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>