RDS: Add rds_conn_path_connect_if_down() for MP-aware callers

rds_conn_path_connect_if_down() works on the rds_conn_path
that it is passed. Callers who are not t_m_capable may continue
calling rds_conn_connect_if_down, which will invoke
rds_conn_path_connect_if_down() with the default c_path[0].

Signed-off-by: Sowmini Varadhan <sowmini.varadhan@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>