can: janz-ican3: add support for one shot mode

The Janz VMOD-ICAN3 hardware has support for one shot packet
transmission. This means that a packet will be attempted to be sent
once, with no automatic retries.

The SocketCAN core has a controller-wide setting for this mode:
CAN_CTRLMODE_ONE_SHOT. The Janz VMOD-ICAN3 hardware supports this flag
on a per-packet level, but the SocketCAN core does not.

Signed-off-by: Ira W. Snyder <iws@ovro.caltech.edu>
Signed-off-by: Marc Kleine-Budde <mkl@pengutronix.de>