l2tp : multicast notification to the registered listeners

Previously l2tp module did not provide any means for the user space to
get notified when tunnels/sessions are added/modified/deleted.
This change contains the following
- create a multicast group for the listeners to register.
- notify the registered listeners when the tunnels/sessions are
  created/modified/deleted.

Signed-off-by: Bill Hong <bhong@brocade.com>
Reviewed-by: Stephen Hemminger <stephen@networkplumber.org>
Reviewed-by: Sven-Thorsten Dietrich <sven@brocade.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>