dm snapshot: add merging

Merging is started when origin is resumed and it is stopped when
origin is suspended or when the merging snapshot is destroyed or
errors are detected.

Merging is not yet interlocked with writes: this will be handled in
subsequent patches.

The code relies on callbacks from a private kcopyd thread.

Signed-off-by: Mikulas Patocka <mpatocka@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>