dm snapshot: delay merging a chunk until writes to it complete

Track writes to chunks that are currently being merged and delay merging
a chunk until all writes to that chunk finish.

Signed-off-by: Mikulas Patocka <mpatocka@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>