IB/cm: Expose service ID in request events

Expose the service ID on an incoming CM or SIDR request to the event
handler. This will allow the RDMA CM module to de-multiplex connection
requests based on the information encoded in the service ID.

Acked-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Haggai Eran <haggaie@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>