tcp/dccp: fix other lockdep splats accessing ireq_opt

In my first attempt to fix the lockdep splat, I forgot we could
enter inet_csk_route_req() with a freshly allocated request socket,
for which refcount has not yet been elevated, due to complex
SLAB_TYPESAFE_BY_RCU rules.

We either are in rcu_read_lock() section _or_ we own a refcount on the
request.

Correct RCU verb to use here is rcu_dereference_check(), although it is
not possible to prove we actually own a reference on a shared
refcount :/

In v2, I added ireq_opt_deref() helper and use in three places, to fix other
possible splats.

[   49.844590]  lockdep_rcu_suspicious+0xea/0xf3
[   49.846487]  inet_csk_route_req+0x53/0x14d
[   49.848334]  tcp_v4_route_req+0xe/0x10
[   49.850174]  tcp_conn_request+0x31c/0x6a0
[   49.851992]  ? __lock_acquire+0x614/0x822
[   49.854015]  tcp_v4_conn_request+0x5a/0x79
[   49.855957]  ? tcp_v4_conn_request+0x5a/0x79
[   49.858052]  tcp_rcv_state_process+0x98/0xdcc
[   49.859990]  ? sk_filter_trim_cap+0x2f6/0x307
[   49.862085]  tcp_v4_do_rcv+0xfc/0x145
[   49.864055]  ? tcp_v4_do_rcv+0xfc/0x145
[   49.866173]  tcp_v4_rcv+0x5ab/0xaf9
[   49.868029]  ip_local_deliver_finish+0x1af/0x2e7
[   49.870064]  ip_local_deliver+0x1b2/0x1c5
[   49.871775]  ? inet_del_offload+0x45/0x45
[   49.873916]  ip_rcv_finish+0x3f7/0x471
[   49.875476]  ip_rcv+0x3f1/0x42f
[   49.876991]  ? ip_local_deliver_finish+0x2e7/0x2e7
[   49.878791]  __netif_receive_skb_core+0x6d3/0x950
[   49.880701]  ? process_backlog+0x7e/0x216
[   49.882589]  __netif_receive_skb+0x1d/0x5e
[   49.884122]  process_backlog+0x10c/0x216
[   49.885812]  net_rx_action+0x147/0x3df

Fixes: a6ca7abe ("tcp/dccp: fix lockdep splat in inet_csk_route_req()")
Fixes: c92e8c02 ("tcp/dccp: fix ireq->opt races")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reported-by: kernel test robot <fengguang.wu@intel.com>
Reported-by: Maciej Żenczykowski <maze@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>