ice: Use more efficient structures

Move a bunch of members around to make more efficient use of
memory, eliminating holes where possible. None of these members
are hot path so cache line alignment is not very important here.

Signed-off-by: Jesse Brandeburg <jesse.brandeburg@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Anirudh Venkataramanan <anirudh.venkataramanan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>