bpf: Add sock_ops RTO callback

Adds an optional call to sock_ops BPF program based on whether the
BPF_SOCK_OPS_RTO_CB_FLAG is set in bpf_sock_ops_flags.
The BPF program is passed 2 arguments: icsk_retransmits and whether the
RTO has expired.

Signed-off-by: Lawrence Brakmo <brakmo@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>