xfs: teach get_bmapx about shared extents and the CoW fork

Teach xfs_getbmapx how to report shared extents and CoW fork contents
accurately in the bmap output by querying the refcount btree
appropriately.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>