vxlan: add ipv6 proxy support

This patch adds the IPv6 version of "arp_reduce", ndisc_send_na()
will be needed.

Cc: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Cc: David Stevens <dlstevens@us.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Cong Wang <amwang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>