nfs: add a nfs_ilookup helper

This helper will allow to find an existing NFS inode by the file handle
and fattr.

Signed-off-by: Peng Tao <tao.peng@primarydata.com>
[hch: split from a larger patch]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>