xprtrdma: Conventional variable names in rpcrdma_conn_upcall

Clean up: The convention throughout other parts of xprtrdma is to
name variables of type struct rpcrdma_xprt "r_xprt", not "xprt".
This convention enables the use of the name "xprt" for a "struct
rpc_xprt" type variable, as in other parts of the RPC client.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>