dm: use bio op accessors

Separate the op from the rq_flag_bits and have dm
set/get the bio using bio_set_op_attrs/bio_op.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <mchristi@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>