nvme: make nvmf_register_transport require a create_ctrl callback

nvmf_create_ctrl() relys on the presence of a create_crtl callback in the
registered nvmf_transport_ops, so make nvmf_register_transport require one.

Update the available call-sites as well to reflect these changes.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>