block: fix peeking requests during PM

We need to look for an active PM request until the next softbarrier
instead of looking for the first non-PM request.  Otherwise any cause
of request reordering might starve the PM request(s).

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>