nvme-rdma: don't fully stop the controller in error recovery

By calling nvme_stop_ctrl on a already failed controller will wait for the
scan work to complete (only by identify timeout expiration which is 60
seconds). This is unnecessary when we already know that the controller has
failed.

Reported-by: Yi Zhang <yizhan@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>