dm: dont use flush_scheduled_work

flush_scheduled_work() is being deprecated.  Flush the used work
directly instead.  In all dm targets, the only work which uses
system_wq is ->trigger_event.

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>