nfsd: Don't get a session reference without a client reference

If the client were to disappear from underneath us while we're holding
a session reference, things would be bad. This cleanup helps ensure
that it cannot, which will be a possibility when the client_mutex is
removed.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>