RDMA/nes: Fix for the ORD value of the connecting peer

Set ORD value of the connecting peer to be at least one in order to
accommodate an RDMA READ Request message.

Signed-off-by: Tatyana Nikolova <Tatyana.E.Nikolova@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Donald Wood <Donald.E.Wood@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>