saner proc_get_inode() calling conventions

Make it drop the pde in *all* cases when no new reference to it is
put into an inode - both when an inode had already been set up
(as we were already doing) and when inode allocation has failed.
Makes for simpler logics in callers...

Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>