NFS: Create a common rpcsetup function for reads and writes

Write adds a little bit of code dealing with flush flags, but since
"how" will always be 0 when reading we can share the code.

Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>