bnx2x: fix 'Ethtool -A' when autoneg

When configuring pauses using 'ethtool -A', the requested values have
effect when used together with autoneg (up to this point, when configured
for autoneg, driver ignored requested pause configuration)

Signed-off-by: Yuval Mintz <yuvalmin@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Eilon Greenstein <eilong@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>