nfsd4: fix delegation recall race use-after-free

When the rarely-used callback-connection-changing setclientid occurs
simultaneously with a delegation recall, we rerun the recall by
requeueing it on a workqueue.  But we also need to take a reference on
the delegation in that case, since the delegation held by the rpc itself
will be released by the rpc_release callback.

Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@citi.umich.edu>