i40e: fix up some of the ethtool connection reporting

Get some more reasonable information reported back out to ethtool
for the different types of connections supported.

Change-Id: I57b153f86b9cdd04ad7cb5bf7d1c45873c196a7a
Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jesse Brandeburg <jesse.brandeburg@intel.com>
Tested-by: Kavindya Deegala <kavindya.s.deegala@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>