pnfs: pnfs_update_layout needs to consider if strict iomode checking is on

As flexfiles has FF_FLAGS_NO_READ_IO, there is a need to generically
support enforcing that a IOMODE_RW segment will not allow READ I/O.

Signed-off-by: Tom Haynes <loghyr@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>