fuse: add reference counting to fuse_file

Make lifetime of 'struct fuse_file' independent from 'struct file' by adding a
reference counter and destructor.

This will enable asynchronous page writeback, where it cannot be guaranteed,
that the file is not released while a request with this file handle is being
served.

The actual RELEASE request is only sent when there are no more references to
the fuse_file.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>