tcp: properly initialize tcp memory limits

Commit 4acb4190 tries to fix the using uninitialized value
introduced by commit 3dc43e3e,  but it would make the
per-socket memory limits too small.

This patch fixes this and also remove the redundant codes
introduced in 4acb4190

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Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Glauber Costa <glommer@parallels.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>