vhost: introduce vhost memory accessors

This patch introduces vhost memory accessors which were just wrappers
for userspace address access helpers. This is a requirement for vhost
device iotlb implementation which will add iotlb translations in those
accessors.

Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>