ipv4: defer fib_compute_spec_dst() call

ip_options_compile() can avoid calling fib_compute_spec_dst()
by default, and perform the call only if needed.

David suggested to add a helper to make the call only once.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>