net: convert syn_wait_lock to a spinlock

This is a low hanging fruit, as we'll get rid of syn_wait_lock eventually.

We hold syn_wait_lock for such small sections, that it makes no sense to use
a read/write lock. A spin lock is simply faster.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>