net/utils: generic inet_pton_with_scope helper

Several locations in the stack need to handle ipv4/ipv6
(with scope) and port strings conversion to sockaddr.
Add a helper that takes either AF_INET, AF_INET6 or
AF_UNSPEC (for wildcard) to centralize this handling.

Suggested-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Acked-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>