xfs: allow writeback on pages without buffer heads

Disable the IOMAP_F_BUFFER_HEAD flag on file systems with a block size
equal to the page size, and deal with pages without buffer heads in
writeback.  Thanks to the previous refactoring this is basically trivial
now.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>