fm10k: update xcast mode before synchronizing multicast addresses

When the PF receives a request to update a multicast address for the VF,
it checks the enabled multicast mode first. Fix a bug where the VF tried
to set a multicast address before requesting the required xcast mode.
This ensures the multicast addresses are honored as long as the xcast
mode was allowed.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Acked-by: Matthew Vick <matthew.vick@intel.com>
Tested-by: Krishneil Singh <krishneil.k.singh@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>