blk-mq: End unstarted requests on dying queue

Go directly to ending a request if it wasn't started. Previously, completing a
request may invoke a driver callback for a request it didn't initialize.

Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn at suse.de>
Acked-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>