xen/pvcalls: implement release command

Release both active and passive sockets. For active sockets, make sure
to avoid possible conflicts with the ioworker reading/writing to those
sockets concurrently. Set map->release to let the ioworker know
atomically that the socket will be released soon, then wait until the
ioworker finishes (flush_work).

Unmap indexes pages and data rings.

Signed-off-by: Stefano Stabellini <stefano@aporeto.com>
Reviewed-by: Juergen Gross <jgross@suse.com>
CC: boris.ostrovsky@oracle.com
CC: jgross@suse.com
Signed-off-by: Boris Ostrovsky <boris.ostrovsky@oracle.com>