devlink: disallow reload operation during device cleanup

There is a race between driver code that does setup/cleanup of device
and devlink reload operation that in some drivers works with the same
code. Use after free could we easily obtained by running:

while true; do
        echo 10 > /sys/bus/netdevsim/new_device
        devlink dev reload netdevsim/netdevsim10 &
        echo 10 > /sys/bus/netdevsim/del_device
done

Fix this by enabling reload only after setup of device is complete and
disabling it at the beginning of the cleanup process.

Reported-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@mellanox.com>
Fixes: 2d8dc5bb ("devlink: Add support for reload")
Signed-off-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>