bpf: sockmap set rlimit

Avoid extra step of setting limit from cmdline and do it directly in
the program.

Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>