canfd: add support for CAN FD in PF_CAN core

- handle ETH_P_CAN and ETH_P_CANFD skbuffs
- update sanity checks for CAN and CAN FD
- make sure the CAN frame can pass the selected CAN netdevice on send
- bump core version and abi version to indicate the new CAN FD support

Signed-off-by: Oliver Hartkopp <socketcan@hartkopp.net>
Signed-off-by: Marc Kleine-Budde <mkl@pengutronix.de>