btrfs: ref-verify: Use btrfs_ref to refactor btrfs_ref_tree_mod()

It's a perfect match for btrfs_ref_tree_mod() to use btrfs_ref, as
btrfs_ref describes a metadata/data reference update comprehensively.

Now we have one less function use confusing owner/level trick.

Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>